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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Does it sound like labour or labour is approaching or just good old pregnancy?

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steph246 · 09/09/2021 12:31

Hi everyone,
A little bit TMI.
So I'm a FTM, I'm 37 & 5.
I haven't had a show or my waters go.

Yesterday I had period cramps most of the day. Last night they were quite intense (i nearly called L&D), they went away after I took some paracetamol and laid down, Iv had horrible back ache along with this.

Today, I literally cannot keep of the toilet pooping, some loose some soft. My back is killing me again, my tummy doesn't have cramps at the moment.
I have had heavy discharge watery milky white.
I have such a pain in my vagina, lots of pressure. I just don't know 🙈

I just feel like so much is changing but I'm not sure what signs to look for 😳
If the cramps come back today I will be calling L & D for advice x
Thankyou for any help or advice xxx

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Room4onemore · 17/09/2021 14:54

Just popped on to see if there was an update 🙂

steph246 · 17/09/2021 15:07

@Room4onemore

Hellllo, nope nothing yet.
Everything seemed to disappear.
Although today I have been having period cramps again and tightenings. Not getting my hopes up just yet 😂🙈

I have a sweep booked in for the 28th so still time yet.
Xxx

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Room4onemore · 17/09/2021 15:15

Fingers crossed for you x

Tinydancer321 · 17/09/2021 15:43

I’m the same still nothing 😂🤦🏼‍♀️. Think she is in there for good lol

steph246 · 17/09/2021 16:04

@Tinydancer321

Hahahaha 😂😂😂 seems that way doesn't it 😂 xxx

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grey12 · 17/09/2021 16:14

Don't do sweep, don't break the waters if you can avoid it!

It totally sounds like labour is starting. It may take a couple of days but just bear with it.

DD3 I was in labour and progressing well and they broke the waters and it was BAD! Nonstop contraction, fetal heartrate went down (baaaad sign), emergency doctor call, luckily baby was out quick. Still really regret accepting that water break Sad could have been worse. I had had my waters broken before but I wasn't having contractions at the time

steph246 · 20/09/2021 14:20

Little update;
We DTD last night and that seems to have kick started things. Called triage this morning as I bleeding after, and I was having bad cramps still having them now.
She didn't seem worried, she said she thinks I'm in the latent stage.
Fingers crossed baby makes an appearance this week!

Hope you are all doing okay? Any update xxx

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rainbowstardrops · 20/09/2021 14:45

Good luck!

Room4onemore · 24/09/2021 18:37

Just checking in to see if there was an update

steph246 · 24/09/2021 19:58

@Room4onemore

Hey! Aww Thankyou for checking in!

Nothing yet, cramps are defiantly getting worse but only seem to have them on a morning.
Still have the "symptoms" I mentioned above but no baby yet.
🥰
How's everyone else doing?

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Wnikat · 24/09/2021 20:01

Sounds weird but do you have a purple line in your arse crack? Google it. Sure sign of labour.

Oodlesofdoodlescockapoodles · 24/09/2021 20:12

Wow how far along are you now? Must feel like it's dragging a bit! Hopefully not long to go Smile

Room4onemore · 24/09/2021 20:14

Hopefully it gets started really soon for you

steph246 · 24/09/2021 23:23

Not sure about the butt crack line 😂

It does feel like it's dragging at the moment. 40 weeks now so I know there isn't long left ...
I feel like I have had dire signs of labour for weeks, but no actual labour.
Hopefully not long 🤞🏼🤞🏼

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bethabean · 24/09/2021 23:25

So exciting! Hopefully not longSmile
Best of luck for when your baby comes xx

Raindancer411 · 27/09/2021 07:18

@steph246 I was having contractions for weeks and not feeling them. I was being checked for lack of movement and every time I was on the machine it was spiking over to 100. They all kept asking if I was feeling it and said no!! I ended up being induced for lack of movement at 40+3 on the end. Then when it was doing it, I did feel them 😂

omomomom · 27/09/2021 09:25

How are you getting @steph246 ? I'm 41 weeks today and haven't had a whiff of labor starting! I'm desperate for it to kick off naturally before being induced on Friday!

steph246 · 27/09/2021 13:16

@Raindancer411 that's crazy! Iv defiantly been having strong cramps but they don't last so who knows 😂🙈
Iv got my first sweep tomorrow so I'm really hoping that kicks things off haha!

@omomomom oh goodness yes I'm
Not surprised but so crazy your little one will be here this week!!
I'm doing good! Iv got horrible PUPPs it's driving me mad so I am trying everything to get him here before I go crazy 😂

We've got cosy babies xx

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omomomom · 27/09/2021 16:26

Yeah that's so weird to think she'll be here this week! I've been going for a 2 hour walk every day, DTD, bouncing on my birthing ball every evening, eating spicy food which I hate but nothing is helping!!!

Ouch I had to google what that is it sounds so uncomfortable poor you! I'm booked in for a sweep tomorrow so hopefully that will get things moving!

steph246 · 27/09/2021 18:34

@omomomom
So exciting! I am so excited for you! 🥰
I'm the same no tricks seem to be working! I'll be having my sweep tomorrow, then gluing my butt to that ball 😂😂

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steph246 · 28/09/2021 09:38

@omomomom

Good luck today x

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omomomom · 28/09/2021 11:03

Thanks @steph246 the sweep was fine not painful at all just uncomfortable fingers crossed it gets things moving! If not I have another one booked for Thursday before induction on Friday 😫. Are you having one today as well? Hope it goes well!

steph246 · 28/09/2021 11:31

@omomomom

That's good news.
Yes I just had mine wasn't bad at all.

I have another booked for Thursday and induction booked for Monday.

Glad I have a plan. Hopefully this one will do the trick!

Fingers crossed for us both xxx

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omomomom · 29/09/2021 20:39

Hi @steph246 how are you getting on?

I've lost some mucas plug this evening so I'm praying that might mean labour is on the way! Don't want to be too hopeful though!

steph246 · 29/09/2021 21:21

Helllllo @omomomom thats exciting! I'm the same lost mucous plug this morning so I'm hoping tonight's the night 🙈 but not getting to excited x
If not another sweep tomorrow so I'm hoping that'll do the trick 🤞🏼🤞🏼

Xx

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