@Maneandfeathers
Hello OP, I posted a very similar thread a while ago and unfortunately didn’t have any concrete answers. I’m in a very similar position.
First DD my waters went at 34 weeks. Scheduled for an induction at 36 weeks and at 35 weeks I started to feel unwell, movements changed, but very little was done. I had a successful induction at 36 weeks but she was born very poorly with early stages of sepsis and I was told it was very likely that if I hadn’t been induced she would have died in the next few days/hours. Thank goodness she recovered and is well now. It was commented at birth my placenta had some signs of deteriation but nothing was recorded on my notes.
Second pregnancy all went really smoothly until 36 weeks when overnight movements went from perfectly normal to practically nothing. I went in for monitoring several times and had a scan and was told all was fine. The movements never increased though and I was constantly in and out of hospital. I was terrified and so certain something wasn’t right. I was eventually induced at 38 weeks and this time my placenta was very deteriorated. My midwife told me that I was very lucky, and honestly what she showed me didn’t even resemble a placenta. It was stringy, dry, falling apart and grey. I had issues with retained placenta as a result and developed an infection from residual placenta being left inside me.
Fast forward to baby number 3 and I am terrified at the prospect of going beyond early term. My inductions were positive experiences and my girls had no issues at all as a result of their prematurity, but both had low birth weight and complications connected to the last few weeks in utero.
Like you, I tried to speak to my midwife about what would happen going forwards and she was very non committal, and then confessed there were actually no notes at all on the birth of my daughter. The hospital seem to have lost them!
I don’t know what happens now. I’m 17 weeks and have a consultant appointment booked for in two weeks time. I am so anxious that they won’t listen to me again. I feel like both times my worries have been downplayed, despite me not having a single issue earlier in pregnancy. I’m not someone who is back and forth every week with problems!
Anyway, after that monologue, I just wanted to let you know that I am going through similar and I’m really keen to hear what happens for you. I really hope they listen to you. One thing I will definitely be using to fight my case is that the risks of an induction decrease significantly after you’ve already had a successful induction, whereas the risks of me going late term are unknown to say the least.