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Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

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9 replies

Helloxxxxxx · 26/08/2021 09:02

Not sure what to put this under , I'm 18 pregnant ,25 weeks , was living with my boyfriend who was older than me but wasn't grown up enough so now I live with my parents , I'm on universal credit as I didn't have a job when I fell pregnant and I get £290 a month I'm just wondering if there's anything else I can claim to cover the cost of a baby , I'm trying to get my own flat but don't want to if I'm going to be struggling , I tried looking online and it's so confusing for me . Can anyone please help it would be appreciated so much

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Chocolatebuttercream · 26/08/2021 09:06

Hi OP, you can phone the Citizens Advice Bureau, they have a dedicated helpline for benefits enquiries. You can also use an online benefits calculator such as entitledto- Google it.

Are you going to be getting child maintenance from the father? If he is named on the birth certificate he has a responsibility to pay you maintenance and you can pursue this legally if he refuses - you can make a claim on the CMS website but it can take a while so worth pursuing now.

You will also get child benefit which I believe is about 80 quid a month - apply via govt website once baby is born.

Finally you are likely to receive a lot more UC if you are renting alone.

Good luck!

DominicRaabsTravelAgent · 26/08/2021 09:13

Finally you are likely to receive a lot more UC if you are renting alone

I'd double check that with your local CAB. Isn't there an age restriction on what was Housing Benefit?

Helloxxxxxx · 26/08/2021 09:15

@Chocolatebuttercream thank you so much for the fast response , can I also ask if when the baby is born will I get a extra amount on universal credit as that's what Iv read but haven't been able to confirm it , and I'm not sure if he will paying anything , he doesn't seem to want to work or grow up , I had my job from when I was 16 to December last year and had to leave due to been treaded so unfair so it's been a struggle even though I put every effort in to getting a new one so the money situation is just stressing me out as I want to do the best I can for baby but dont want us to struggle to much

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ann122 · 26/08/2021 09:17

Hey claim the sure start grant you receive £500 one off I'm waiting for mine to come through you need midwife to fill in a form for you xx

Helloxxxxxx · 26/08/2021 09:19

@ann122 hi thanks , my grandma got me a form for this but I was just unsure wether I could claim it cos it says I wouldn't be eligible if there's another child living in the house hold even though she is my sister and not mine

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Helloxxxxxx · 26/08/2021 09:20

@ann122 I tried to find out online but couldn't xx

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Chocolatebuttercream · 26/08/2021 09:21

OP I'm afraid I'm not sure, as I don't have personal experience of benefits. I would recommend phoning the CAB who can give you personalised information, it's a charity so their help is free

ann122 · 26/08/2021 10:18

Apply and see what happens, that's what I'd suggest if you claim universal credit you should be entitled especially if it your first baby xx

nellly · 26/08/2021 10:31

Talk to your midwife as well there are grants for things like milk and vegetables I think to help you eat healthy in your pregnancy.
Also look at local baby banks and charities, lots do free or very cheap baby items. If you feel
Comfortable posting a rough region/area where you are posters might know of local support too

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