I'm not ready for this baby..(?)

[jsl93]

Well at least I don't think I am anymore.

Found out I was pregnant a few weeks ago and at first I felt unsure because I already have DS who I adore but feel like I've only just got to grips with managing life and motherhood.

Initially my partner wasnt pleased about the news either and still isn't. He's adamant we're not ready and that we should take time to work on our relationship as well as spend more time just being happy.
At first I thought it was rubbish but after a long chat I get what he's saying and sort of.. agree.

I'm not sure if it's because he's been adamantly against the baby that I don't think I want to continue or if it's because I know deep down I'm not that excited for this.

Any thoughts or if you've been in a similar situation it would be great to hear

I can understand how you and your partner feel but the fact is you are pregnant.

Nobody can advise you whether to accept it or end it, especially not on here. I'm afraid it is entirely up to you.

Have a frank chat with him and make a list of the pros and cons, then try to work out exactly how you feel about this unborn baby. Many unplanned pregnancies end up in a welcomed and much loved baby.

Best wishes to you for whatever you decide.