Hey 👋
Ah, first time posting so sorry if I'm doing this wrong etc.
I'm currently 38+3 with a baby girl, but I've been struggling with reduced movements and preeclamsia symptoms since around 20w. I've been back and forth to the maternity unit for monitoring with ctg and blood pressure checks, blood and urine taken, etc around 5 or 6 times. My last two visits were only two days apart, last week. Because of that, they've given me a CTG appointment tomorrow, and a growth scan on Friday, but I'm so nervous about going because I feel like I'm not being listened to. It's very much beginning to feel like a "put her on the monitor, that'll shut her up for a couple weeks" situation.
Baby will be extremely quiet the whole day, sometimes day and a half, then wake up as soon as they get the monitor on bump which makes me look like a crazy person.
My community midwife has recorded high blood pressure a few times, but as soon as the hospital check me, I'm fine. I have protein in my urine every time they check apart from when I absolutely chugged water moreso than usual one day which I'm assuming had diluted my pee or whatever.
I'm getting so frustrated, as I pretty much have all the symptoms of preeclampsia, but my monitoring results make the nurses shrug me off.
...And I'm rambling, sorry!
Where I'm going with this is I've read a few stories on here where ladies have been induced as it is policy to do so after 3 episodes of reduced movements, but said posts are very old and I'm unsure if that is still policy or policy in my area.
I would rather go into labor naturally, but it's getting to the point where I'm so worried about baby quieting down that I'm afraid to sleep in case something happens overnight and by the time I wake up it's too late. I just want to make sure baby is safe. I'd call the unit to ask their policy, but I'm extremely shy and nervous. I don't want them to think I'm being pushy.