I would really recommend at least speaking to ARGC
If you’ve not been given a reason for the failed cycles, they are the only ones likely to get to root cause rather than just trot out the ‘it’s a numbers game’ line and get you to do endless cycles until something sticks
I had earlier cycles at Lister, Create, Chelsea and Westminster and they were all of the option that we should just keep going and eventually it would work. I had 11 cycles across those clinics with no baby…
One consultation at ARGC, and the doc looked at my history and medical notes, and said I almost certainly had an immune condition which was preventing implantation because my body was seeing the embryo as a foreign body and destroying it
They did the relevant blood tests, and of the 7 immune things they measure, I was off the scale on 5 of them
I had 1 course of medication to suppress my immune system, then a retest showed all the blood levels were normal so we did another cycle
It worked first time, and gave us enough leftover embryos to give us our second son
The ARGC round was north of £15k but that was nothing compared to the cost of the 11 failed cycles at the other clinics
Even after the last failed round, Lister was still trying to talk me out of going to ARGC and said they could get me pregnant if I just had the patience to stick with them 