Dear All,
First of all, sorry for any typo but English is not my first language :)
I am in my third trimester of my 2nd pregnancy and starting now to be more careful to avoid COVID exposure.
Few weeks ago we decided the godparents for my second daughter: my brother in law and his wife.
We decided to organize a brunch together to inform them about our decision, organizing also a small surprise box. I am vaccinated, but they are not and they are not really careful.
My husband asked them, one day before our brunch, if we could change meeting place: instead of their place (no terrace), meeting at our place so that we could eat in our garden and avoid gathering inside.
My husband explained them that third trimester is a delicate time for both mother and baby in case of covid exposure.
Their reaction was frankly really surprising, ranging from a "you have been brainwashed" " do not ever speak to me again" "we are not gonna tiptoe around your wife" etc. They then canceled our brunch.
I was really sad to hear this and I told to my husband we should consider choosing different godparents.
My husband says I am overreacting.
I find concerning that even after explaing them the risk for me and the baby, they show no comprehension at all, and our request was so small!
I am honestly not even in a mood of seeing them again if they do not apologize.
Do you think I am overreacting? I am pregnant, so my hormones are maybe playing a role...
Thanks for your feedback :)