Hi all,
I'm currently 16 weeks, with a due date of 5th January.
Due to previous birth trauma I will be having an elective section. DD2 was born at 38+5 by emergency c section weighing 7 lb 15. She was very slightly jaundiced but didn't require a baby sun bed.
DH will only receive statutory paternity pay which means we cannot afford for him to take time off and he has no annual leave left. I was just wondering what the chances are, or if it is even reasonable of me to ask, for this baby to be born at 38+1/2. This would mean the baby will be here by Christmas Eve. DH is off over Christmas until the new year.
We have two other children, one school age, and taking two of his 4 weeks of annual leave in January is just going to be too difficult.
It feels a bit selfish to have my baby born early to suit our financial situation, but I'm so worried about money and can't think of an alternative.