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Partner problems

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Lily189 · 20/07/2021 09:29

Hi everyone I'm 16 weeks pregnant and have a 9 month old
From I've been pregnant I've started snoring some nights but every night I'm making noises in my sleep
My partner wont sleep in bed with me and is sleeping downstairs
Our living room and bedroom are quite close theres not many stairs no living room door plus I have keep bedroom door open to hear my son
The last 2 nights hes been shouting upstairs and waking me up when hes herd me calling me names saying I shouldnt sleep in the house I'm actually sitting awake at times just so i dont make the noises and I'm drianed all the time
Hes also started when were watching tv and he sees people close to my size (I'm size 20 and still carrying weight from previous pregnancy) saying how there so unhealthy and look terrible
It's making me feel really down he really wanted this baby too and wants more but its putting me off as I dont want be pregnant again i just want lose weight hes making this pregnancy miserable for me

Hes normally an amazing boyfriend and hes a brilliant daddy its just lately hes getting on like this i know the snoring thing must be annoying but theres nothing I can do I've bought nose strips mouth ones spray nothing works and nothing stops the noises I make

Our whole relationship being affected were very rarely intimate anymore and we never just kiss or cuddle

Anyone know what I can do to help this I feel like it's all my fault

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Sheisfee · 20/07/2021 09:40

Sorry you’re having such a difficult time!

There is no excuse for his behaviour. It’s basically your choice what you can put up with… probably not the advice you were looking for.

Motherofcats007 · 20/07/2021 09:48

He’s being so unreasonable, and frankly, just being an a hole for telling you you shouldn’t sleep in your own house. If the snoring bothers him so much he can put earplugs in. Have you told him how his comments make you feel? And how there is literally nothing you can do about it?

Also, for your sake, maybe it’s good to have a chat to your GP about the snoring.

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