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Anyone else feeling extremely lonely/isolated?

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FTM23 · 10/07/2021 12:40

Sorry for the long rant but I am feeling soooo lonely and isolated. Recently moved to a new house together which isn’t so close to family or any familiar places for me so I often rely on public transport or DH taking me as I don’t drive. Public transport becoming more of an annoyance to me now as I’m 36 weeks pregnant and just feel rather large and uncomfortable! It’s broken my heart that I’ve not kept in great contact with my mother since moving away from the area, honestly we have never had a lovey dovey relationship but I just crave a mother right now. She only contacts me if there is something she needs, she will never just text to ask how I am or for a general chat, I’ve tried to ask her to come out for a coffee or some lunch together but she often declines and I just feel rejected so end up isolating myself further as I don’t want to annoy anyone. I don’t really have any other family that I have a close relationship with and I’ve drifted away from all of my friends, how fun! The only human interaction I have in my day is when DH comes home from work, the past few weeks he’s been working 6/7 days and I know it sounds pathetic but I have really struggled, being alone at home all day with no interaction from anyone is starting to take its toll on me and I’m struggling to get through the day. I have spoken to my Midwife and GP about my feelings and while my Midwife is great she refers me to GP who I feel is really condescending and doesn’t take me seriously. Please has anyone had experience of this/going through this and can offer any advice?

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SheABitSpicyToday · 10/07/2021 12:44

I’m the same! We moved here in March, only an hour away from friends a family and I do drive but I’m too sick to go anywhere. Partners a chef so works long hours and dd is at school all day. I spend my days lying on the sofa feeling shit.

AdventuresAwait · 10/07/2021 15:09

Hi @FTM23, I moved just before the first lockdown and don't really know anyone in my area. I also don't drive but want to learn when baby arrives. I'm 31 weeks and am looking forward to meeting people when I can attend baby groups etc. There's a app where you can meet others who are due at the same time but I forget the name... might be worth having a look for that? Xx

FTM23 · 10/07/2021 18:43

@SheABitSpicyToday oh it’s awful isn’t it! When I was working I wanted nothing more than to just chill at home but being here alone all day with your thoughts is good for no one. @AdventuresAwait yeah I always wanted to go to classes to prepare for baby arriving and other things but I’m sure they are still being done online which just isn’t the same for me Sad I’ll have a look at some apps for mums/mums to be thank you both for your replies xx

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