Pregnant after late miscarriage or still birth support thread

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I've just found out I'm pregnant and I'm so excited, but that's mixed with anxiety and dread. I had a miscarriage at 20 weeks on Xmas Eve. (as well as 2 previous early miscarriages). I'm going to panic over every little thing.
I have the most fantastic support from the berivement midwife but though it would be nice to build a group for mutual support here, where we can all share our completely over the top and probably irrational worries.
There seems to be lots of threads about pregnancy after miscarriage, but they seem to be dominated by people who had early miscarriages and, whilst still awful, will have a different impact on emotional state and worries during pregnancy.

@ScrantonDunderMifflin its a tricky one to balance. No one outside of our immediate family knew about our loss so I didn’t have to deal with peoples sympathies (or lack thereof) so when we announced the pregnancy no one really treated me any differently. I think any of those sorts of comments would tip me over the edge tbh. Congratulations on your pregnancy, I love all these updates from people on the thread. When I was in the thick of it I found seeing other peoples good news really comforting xxx