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Has anyone ever not had to stay the night after a c section?

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cantthinkofaname2021 · 13/06/2021 15:48

My c section is on Wednesday morning, I'm panicking about having to stay the night (which might sound ridiculous) I did want to get a private room but still not sure if it's possible. Has anyone ever gone home the same day after having one? X

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grooovychick · 16/06/2021 12:41

How many weeks are you now op? If you'll be 40 weeks next week when they're suggesting I wouldn't be happy - they'll be hoping you go into labour. I had an ELCS at 39+5 and thought that was pushing it a bit in terms of chances of going into labour pre op.

Constantcrayfish · 16/06/2021 13:37

Sorry not to come back to this thread earlier, OP. PALS can act immediately - they can contact ward managers, senior staff etc. if they hear of a situation that needs resolving. They're not just for resolving issues after the fact.

princessandthebaby · 16/06/2021 13:48

Sending hugs

princessandthebaby · 16/06/2021 21:51

@cantthinkofaname2021 how are you doing?

You've stayed in my thoughts since I read this thread earlier.

postnatalworries · 16/06/2021 22:04

You'll be fine OP. My first night away from my 16 month old was after having a section with DC2! He was fine without me!

DC2 was an elective section and was my first section experience- it was far, far better than my traumatic vaginal first birth. Having said that, I did stay two nights on the postnatal ward- there was no way I would have been able to go home the day after- and my section was at 9am!

cantthinkofaname2021 · 16/06/2021 22:09

[quote princessandthebaby]@cantthinkofaname2021 how are you doing?

You've stayed in my thoughts since I read this thread earlier. [/quote]
Aww thank you for thinking of me
They came to take me to theatre at 1.50pm and baby was delivered at 2.52pm, I was so convinced that they were about to cancel it, was starving & felt so weak by then
The epidural & drip wasn't pleasant, but once that was done getting baby out was super quick, abit uncomfortable with the pulling sensation. Had all the side effects from the drugs but I think that was probably due to not eating for so long
They removed my Fallopian tube (the mass was still there) and it's getting tested. That part was the most uncomfortable. If it has been a straight forward c section I was surprised how quick it was! All the staff in theatre were great
Feeling much better now and glad it's over, minus the needles the actual procedure it's self wasn't as bad as I thought
And definitely staying the night, I know I need to! Hopefully can go home tomorrow
Thanks so much for all the supportive helpful comments x

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mammmamia · 16/06/2021 22:13

Wonderful, congratulations!

headintheproverbial · 16/06/2021 22:56

It's major abdominal surgery. You'll have a catheter in for at least some of the time and in a lot of pain. Yes you'll have to stay in.

Also - your baby might require extra care or monitoring. Even if you were well enough to go what if he / she isn't??

grooovychick · 16/06/2021 23:03

Congratulations op!

HereWeGoAgain24 · 17/06/2021 06:02

Congratulations OP, you stayed in my thoughts yesterday too, I'm so sorry for the bad experience you had prior to surgery.

So glad you and baby are doing well. Thanks

nameisnotimportant · 17/06/2021 06:50

I think it would be negligent for them to let you go home the same day. It's major abdominal surgery and there can be complications that they need to monitor you for, you will need pain relief, to eat and drink, to pass urine properly, to be able to mobilise and your csection scar will need to be checked. I loathe staying overnight in hospital and would much rather be at home but you have children that you need to be healthy for. If you were at home and had complications, you could become very unwell very quickly, so try and just see it as having to stay in to make sure your healthy enough to go home to your children.

GappyValley · 17/06/2021 07:54

Congratulations!

Mama1980 · 17/06/2021 09:10

Congratulations ThanksSmile

LakeShoreD · 17/06/2021 09:31

Congratulations! I hope you get home soon!

PaddleBoardingMomma · 17/06/2021 11:03

Congratulations!!!

cantthinkofaname2021 · 17/06/2021 15:33

Thank you very much, it's actually true that I'm in the best place to be if I have any problems. Luckily baby is fine, I was fine until the pain kicked in this morning. Due to be discharged in the next few hours :) yes it wasn't a great experience to start, however the post natal ward hasn't been too bad apart from people taking phone calls at 4am Shock
Thank you for the congratulations x

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GappyValley · 17/06/2021 16:23

There is a special corner of hell for people who talk on their phones at stupid times on antenatal wards…

Hope you’re back home v soon Flowers

cantthinkofaname2021 · 18/06/2021 16:43

Thank you all again, there's actually no way I would have felt able to go home the same day, if it wasn't for the noise (therefore no sleep) I wouldn't have actually minded staying 1 more night (in a private room I guess) I felt ok until the pain kicked in, yesterday I felt terrible but much better today just taking ibuprofen
Whoever said they were in b&m within 24 hours after c section that is crazy Shock I wouldn't even want to
But today I do feel much better than I thought I would
I also didn't get given blood thinning injections, even though I had 2 risk factors ( c section & extra blood loss) I gave birth out of area but if I had at the hospital here my community midwife says I would have definitely been given them!

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