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Pregnant with twins, father doesn’t want to be involved

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Anonymous0987 · 13/06/2021 11:36

I’m currently 29 weeks pregnant with the love of my life’s babies. When I explained to him that we was pregnant he said I should abort... I booked the appointment and wanted his support but got nothing. The lady scanned me and told me I was expecting twins, I was so overwhelmed but at the same time scared of going through with this abortion. I decided to keep the twins and didn’t tell the father.
I posted my 13 week scan online and he contacted me, I was overjoyed that he wanted to see me. We spoke he told me he loved me and wanted to be at my other scans and the birth. I was so happy, he said he would text me the next day and I heard nothing! I messaged him and I got the response that he wants no involvement and that I will probably end up hating him.
I felt like he had ripped my heart out all over again, I feel as if this guy who was my first love many years ago has just come back into my life told me what I wanted to hear then left me scared and alone.
I cry almost every night, I don’t dare to contact him incase of rejection.

Please help...

OP posts:
Egeegogxmv · 13/06/2021 14:13

He is just a provider of genetic material, his personality is shallow and selfish and you are well rid of him

Anonymous0987 · 13/06/2021 14:47

Thank you, I will look into that ❤️

OP posts:
Thehouseofmarvels · 13/06/2021 15:06

You could always try contacting his other children, ex, parents, grandparents, siblings,ect. It may be that not a single one want contact but on the other hand you might find a person among them who is kind and supportive. You never know ! If you don't know the names of his family members or how to get hold of them, his ex might know.

UhtredRagnarson · 13/06/2021 15:09

@Thehouseofmarvels

You could always try contacting his other children, ex, parents, grandparents, siblings,ect. It may be that not a single one want contact but on the other hand you might find a person among them who is kind and supportive. You never know ! If you don't know the names of his family members or how to get hold of them, his ex might know.
Be careful if you do decide to do this OP. You have no idea what his family will be like about this. It may not be the nice supportive response you need.
Thehouseofmarvels · 13/06/2021 15:12

If you don't feel comfortable about contacting the ex it could be good if your kids were shown photos of them on exes social media if they live in the same area. As ex could go on to have various other kids and if none of the siblings never knew about each other they could end up dating each other lol

NinaMimi · 13/06/2021 15:23

Draw a line under the whole relationship. Hoping and wishing for a change in him is not empowering. You don’t need someone to drag you down and toy with you. Just concentrate on making plans for you and your twins. Best of luck.

Thehouseofmarvels · 13/06/2021 15:55

Also if his family live in very close proximity could be good if your twins could recognize, by seeing photos, his nieces and nephews so they didn't date their cousins either!

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