Help!!! Need some reassurance?

[Gaga87]

Help ladies,
Met my partner 8 years ago- had quite an emotionally abusive relationship, always being accused, actually really lost myself - anyways long story short he cheated on me at 6 months pregnant (after 4 early Mc) I left him and stayed clear for 4 years GO ME
Recently we reconnected and I finally was ready for him to be part of my daughters life again and mine (I still loved him) and he has been lovely for 6 months now the cracks are starting to show- everything is my fault, I haven't changed, I'm going to end up alone, his going to leave (when we argue) he'll be my biggest regret. Basically emotional abuse.
He is currently sitting downstairs on my sofa after a row telling me when he leaves in the morning I will never hear from him again. Mixed emotions but I don't want to let him treat me like this!
Currently 13 weeks and I love him but I don't like

Life is too short. Love shouldn't be this hard. Ditch the man, keep the baby if that is what you want and carve a fabulous life for you and your children on your own terms.

Let him leave and know that's the best thing he could do for you.

You dont deserve his abuse and are worth much more. Give yourself credit for raising your daughter without him and how you can raise another child without him in your life giving you grief and making you feel like this. Make sure you lean on family and good friends if you can but do not out your with this life that's not meant for you. You only live once! X

@FayLiv

Let him leave and know that's the best thing he could do for you.

You dont deserve his abuse and are worth much more. Give yourself credit for raising your daughter without him and how you can raise another child without him in your life giving you grief and making you feel like this. Make sure you lean on family and good friends if you can but do not out your with this life that's not meant for you. You only live once! X

Thanks hunni, I know I'm better than this! This was his 2nd chance to prove me wrong not the other way round.

@squee123

Life is too short. Love shouldn't be this hard. Ditch the man, keep the baby if that is what you want and carve a fabulous life for you and your children on your own terms.

🤗 xx needed this