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Second pregnancy: perineal pain at site of previous second degree tear

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Poppins2016 · 19/05/2021 22:12

I'm 24 + weeks pregnant with my second baby. My pelvic floor has never felt quite right following a second degree tear and stitches when giving birth to my first baby 2.5 years ago (it's always been a bit achey and used to be incredibly tender when I needed the loo, i.e. holding my bladder, although that improved down the line). I was told to wait it out and that it would improve with time...

As this pregnancy has progressed, I've started to feel a lot more achey than usual (sometimes quite a sharp ache/pain) along my perineum at the site of the old tear, particularly when gently exercising or standing for long periods. I sometimes wonder whether my muscles didn't heal quite right and now pregnancy/the relaxin hormone is making it feel worse...

I'll ask my midwife about this when I see her tomorrow. But I'm wondering:

A) has anyone else had this?
B) was there any treatment recommended?
C) what was the outcome post birth (better, worse, the same)?
D) should I be asking for any treatment options in particular/is there anything I should bear in mind for my next birth in order to avoid worsening the issue or (hopefully) avoid a repeat?!

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Girlonthego · 19/05/2021 22:42

Watching with interest. I'm also 24 weeks and when I sit on the loo and relax that area I feel like my insides are a bit 'unsupported', if that makes sense?
I had a third degree tear in previous birth and never was convinced they stitched me up properly.

Poppins2016 · 19/05/2021 22:59

@Girlonthego that totally makes sense. I felt as though my 'insides were going to fall out' post birth (a very common feeling, I gather!)... but I've also had that same feeling recently if I've overdone it. I definitely feel as though I'm unsupported down below, as well as the pain!

I'm wondering whether it would be worth asking for a consultant to stitch me if I tear this time, given all the issues I've had!

I've been looking up things like pelvic girdle pain etc. but I don't think this issue fits the criteria... it's literally just the muscle zone along my perineum where I tore and was stitched, everywhere else is alsolutely fine!

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8dpwoah · 19/05/2021 23:26

Following as I was thinking only the other day that my episiotomy scar felt a bit like Harry Potter's but mine bought on by standing up too long rather than Voldemort 😂.
I do think I'm a bit more puffy down there in general so I guess the scar tissues must be finding that bit challenging?

tinytoucan · 20/05/2021 00:12

I had this. I actually never mentioned it to my midwife although probably should have. I also had pain in my hips and ended up getting a support belt, which helped with the pain at the site of the old tear as well.

It’s now been a year after the birth and all good. I didn’t tear the second time which I had been worried about.

Girlonthego · 20/05/2021 07:19

That's really good to hear tiny

Poppins2016 · 20/05/2021 10:16

Echoing that, your post is a relief, @tinytoucan!

I have to admit I'm a bit worried I'll be stuck with the pelvic floor issues for life (especially if this pregnancy/birth makes it worse). I know it could be much worse (I am fully continent, no prolapses, it's 'just' an ache/some pain etc...) but I'd really like to be able to be active without pain, I don't think that's really too much to ask in an ideal world!

I'll see my midwife later and see what she says...

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SingingWaffleDoggy · 20/05/2021 10:24

I had this with my recent pregnancy following a 3rd degree tear with my previous. I had an elective c section this time due to the issues with the tear previously (was under gynae for a year afterwards) so can’t help with preventing further tears in birth. However, when I said about the perineal pain I was told it’s quite normal following previous tearing and was offered physio but found a supportive belt definitely helped. It felt like it lifted the baby off of the scar tissue. Hope they can find something that helps you

ThanksItHasPockets · 20/05/2021 10:27

Hi OP. You might be aware that scar tissue doesn't stretch like normal perineal tissue so this might be what you're experiencing. Do ask your midwife; massage can help to break down the adhesions a bit. I have to say that my extensive scarring due to birth injuries for DC1 was the main reason that I requested (and was granted) an ELCS for DC2.

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