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philadelphiafreedom · 14/05/2021 17:54

Been suffering with bad sickness and nausea for three weeks, tried various anti sickness meds through the GP plus loads of home remedies and not working. Hardly getting out of bed and generally feeling awful physically and now mentally.

Had to see GP in person this afternoon and they explained I am dehydrated and needed to be seen at prenatal ward at hospital - called the on call obstetric team and I was told to come straight over.

Arrived and they didn’t know anything about me so was asked to wait in the day room. Embarrassingly I had a little cry at this point, completely ridiculous but I’ve just felt so rubbish.
I’ve been in the room for just under two hours with no water, tissues (didn’t bring anything as was told to come straight here from GP) so frankly I don’t know if I am nauseous or just starving at this point. All the other patients and their babies have been and gone and it’s just me and my sick bowl that the GP gave me. Lovely HCA has been in to take BP and apologise for the wait but gone off shift now and the only other person I’ve seen was the nurse coming in to microwave her dinner in here (dry heave).

I’ve worked for the NHS and don’t want to be a total grotbag and I’m sure the staff are all flat out but if I’ve established they haven’t forgotten me should I just go home where I can at least vomit in my own toilet rather than scuttle in shame across the corridor during the dinner round?

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OhTheIronyOfItAll · 14/05/2021 19:19

Oh op that sounds miserable.
Have you managed to be seen yet? I hope you are comfortable & hydrated soon Flowers

MyGoMargot · 14/05/2021 19:24

Shocking treatment and I hope you feel able to raise a complaint when feeling better

Yes the NHS is pressured and doesn’t always have capacity but there is no excuse for not getting g the basics right - a hello, a welcome, an explanation of what will be happening and when

I work in A&E btw so feel qualified to say this!

Hope you feel better soon OP

MyGoMargot · 14/05/2021 19:24

Heating up a meal in front of you very unprofessional

philadelphiafreedom · 14/05/2021 20:04

Thank you @OhTheIronyOfItAll @MyGoMargot. Update is that after 2.5ish hours my partner called reception to ask what was going on (pathetic on my part but feeling fairly pathetic at the moment) and a nurse came to say that she couldn’t say when I would be seen as there were 10 emergencies ahead of me but it should be tonight. I explained politely that I would like to go home (didn’t mention hungry, thirsty, cold, no privacy) and she said I needed to sign discharge forms. I was supposed to sign off to say that I was leaving against the advice of the doctor and would be putting myself at risk so I politely declined as I hadn’t seen a doctor (or anyone else). Now back at home feeling grim but at least I’m warm and can get a drink or snack - not that I feel like it Envy

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Ednadidit · 14/05/2021 21:11

I’m so sorry @philadelphiafreedom. When I was really suffering I cried all by myself in the doctor’s waiting room because I’d forgotten my water bottle and the receptionists felt so terrible that they gave me one of their mugs with water in and just told me to keep it. I really empathise with you - it’s just so awful sitting there indefinitely and trying not to vomit. I hope you feel that you can try again to get help. I’m coming out the other side but I absolutely relied on ice lollies and fruit juice to get me through when I was dehydrated.

Hope tomorrow is a better day for you x

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