Hi everyone,
So Saturday just gone I found out I was pregnant. I've been on the pill so it was a shock, actually a huge shock! I've already got 3 children all boys 10,8 and 5 they can be hard work! Me and my ex didn't work out and was together over 8 years, we are currently going through a divorce. Haven't been together since last July. Due to his infidelity.
Last September I started talking to an old flame from over 10 years ago! We talked for 5 months before we finally met up, sparks flew get on really well, have a laugh and I do like him a lot. He feels the same maybe more than I do at the minute which I have been open and honest with him about it. Anyways we have been seeing each other since we met up for the first time few months back. We've obviously been having sex and now this has happened and has completely blown my mind.
I'm currently in the middle of a divorce, court within regards to the contact with my ex and our children and I'm also doing my maths and English and want to go university in September and had all these plans and soo much is going on and it's completely blown my mind! The person I'm seeing has been so good and understanding and has told me he will stick by me whatever decision I make. I just don't know what to do because I don't see any positives with this, I mean if it was a year down the line I would feel so different! It's just such bad timing and so unplanned, but then when I think about terminating the pregnancy I feel frigging awful? ☹️ I'm stuck and need advice.
!!!!Please DO NOT comment if your going to make snotty digs and comments! I just need advice and need to talk!!!!