33 weeks and fed up!

[MyBabyBoyBlue]

Hi all, this is just a rant really!!

Pregnant with DC2 and so so fed up, it's been one long.list of ailments after another and crippling hyperemesis until 20 weeks. Still so nauseous now, my hips hurt, I'm exhausted, I have awful piles which keeps bleeding, can't sleep at night and am now so massive it takes ages to turn over in bed and by the time I have I just want to turn back again!
Trying to juggle awful constipation (sorry) with iron tablets as also anaemic.

Everything is just such a struggle and still 7 whole weeks to go!! Please tell me I'm not the only one feeling like this - I feel so so guilty and of course am so grateful to be pregnant at all, but still, it's just getting so hard now

You are definitely not alone! Can I have a moan too?!!

I have basically been ill since I found out I was pregnant - sickness until 16 weeks, at 18 weeks SPD kicked in (although managing this with physio and a support belt), 21 weeks I got food poisoning (that was a special 10 days), then had on/off indigestion which makes me want to thrown up, thrush this week and now constipation. Arghhh - and I’m so fed up feeling unwell!

I have a c-section booked at 39 weeks so I have 8 weeks left and literally counting each and every day!

And if one more person tells me how much they liked being pregnant - normally with a smug grin and when they know how much I am suffering, I will not be responsible for my actions!

@Crazycatlady83 I'm sorry you're suffering too but glad I'm not alone! And yes who are all these women who have glowing easy pregnancies and waft around looking dainty and fresh as a daisy?! I look like an angry walrus with a very unattractive waddle!!

OP I could have written many parts of this myself. You are not alone!! l I’ve just applied yet another layer of haemorrhoid cream up my throbbing backside and told my piles to fuck off. My nausea - that has never gone away - can fuck right off as well. Alongside back pain, hip pain, lack of sleep, shit skin and bleeding gums. 31 weeks and clearly enjoying this magical, enchanting time.

@MyBabyBoyBlue thanks so much! I hope your 7 weeks goes quickly! Lol - I'm the size of a family car! What a magical time for us all

I'm 30 weeks tomorrow but I'm so done the last s 2 weeks. 3rd pregnancy, after a missed miscarriage last July and with a just gone 2 year old and nearly 11 year old. I'm so fed up this pregnancy has been one scare after another between normal anxiety then worries after mmc finally got to 13 week scan and all good but between sickness then not feeling her till 21 weeks the same week I'd my 20 week scan they said she might have downs or cystic fibrosis so between follow up scans and tests results took 8 weeks. All good test wise but then told she's too small and placenta may not be working! Que another scan 3 weeks later to be told she's grand. She might be grand but I'm not 😂 sorry for the giant rant but I completely sympathise. I'm feeling sick again, spd and not sleeping between the turning (or trying too) and peeing. This has defo been the decider that this is the last one!

@Sippinongingernjuice me too!! And have spent the evening in my underwear because I'm too hot and sweaty to pretend I'm ok wearing clothes - all my dignity has gone straight out of the window!

@MrsMDD I'm so sorry you've had such a rough time so far - the anxiety is awful when they tell you there might be sth wrong, isn't it, but I'm so glad your baby is doing well now. Fingers crossed the last few weeks arent too uncomfortable for you even though we all know we just want to serve the eviction notice!!