So I'm 36 weeks pregnant. Had a scan last week - baby transverse. Midwife appointment today - baby oblique/midwife not sure. I asked about hospital admission from 37 weeks as I've read on here that that seems to be standard for these positions. Midwife says nothing needs to be done, all is fine. I later call the maternity unit to ask for clarification, and the lady on the phone tells me that I should have been referred to a consultant, and to come in to speak to one. I go in and talk to a midwife. She all but tells me I'm wasting her time and that I'm being ridiculous, and that everyone is at risk of cord prolapse and they can't admit everyone from 37 weeks. I told her I wanted to speak to a consultant, as that is what I was advised over the phone. I know have an appointment for Thursday, which she begrudgingly made while telling me it was a waste of time.
I've now looked at NHS, NICE and RCOG(?) guidelines and advice, and they all say women from 37 weeks should/may/must be admitted for observation due to risk to baby. Where do I stand with this with my hospital? Can they refuse this? And what do I do if they do? I have a nearly 2 year old and my husband works far away some days and doesn't know where he will be sent day to day. MIL lives round the corner but also works and can't just stay at home in case I call for the next 3 weeks. I don't want to be in the situation where I can't get into hospital because I'm waiting for someone to come and get DD, and in any case the thought of having to wait for an ambulance before getting my baby seen to is filling me with anxiety and is something I would rather avoid. How can I persuade the hospital to admit me for those 2 weeks? Has anyone been in this situation before?