Upset sobbing about dirty pots everyday

[aliceholland246]

Why do I get triggered by plates that aren't washed properly ? All I want is food I'm pregnant
I scream I'm upset and sob for ages after and give up. My partner washes the pots and I always wash them again because they're still dirty , everyday I breakdown because of this.

My mums house is a mess and I hate living here, I can't find a decent job that doesn't make me depressed

This literally is a cycle everyday I feel like throwing things and I'm angry

I have had the serious pregnancy rage throughout this pregnancy- I’m 30 weeks. I think just so much is uncontrollable about our lives right now so the smallest thing can push us over!! I also get very stressed about house being messy/ disorganised/ stuff falling out of cupboards etc, I think it’s hormones combined with poor sleep combined with nesting instinct. Just rage & swear away! It’s very normal

Well it isn't about the pots. That's the first thing.

Do you and your partner love with your Mom? Is that the plan for once baby is born?

What does he say when you tell him they're dirty?

Screaming at him is not ok, but it sounds like he's doing it on purpose so you do it.

What else does he do around the house?

What job are you doing at the moment and why is it depressing you. Depending on how pregnant you are, you might find it v difficult to get another ATM. Are you planning on going back after baby?

Have you spoken to your midwife about how low you're feeling?

Is he seriously bad at washing things-that is weird? Have you talked to him about it-is he generally unhygienic, lazy or does he need an eyesight check?!

I’d start saving for a dishwasher.

Agree this sounds like its about more than the washing up

Also, any chance hes being bad at it on purpose so you tell him not to bother?