Hi all
I'm currently pregnant with my first child. We've been trying for a baby for over 2 years and have had 2 miscarriages in the past year - the first at 4 weeks and the second was at 6 weeks but not detected until a scan at 9 weeks when I was told the baby had stopped developing. So, as you can imagine, I'm quite anxious this time around.
At what I though was 6 weeks, I noticed some brown discharge and was referred for a scan where I was shown the heartbeat and told everything was fine... but I wasn't as far along as I thought, I was just coming up to 6 weeks. I was relieved at first but then got hung up on the fact that that meant I would have been barely pregnant when I got a positive (it also said 2-3 weeks on the test but I've been strongly told to ignore the weeks).
Then yesterday at what I think is coming up to weeks, I noticed brown discharge when I wipe (sorry, TMI) in exactly the same way as I had before finding out I had had a mmc. Obviously I panicked and rang the hospital and arrived convinced they were going to confirm the worst. This time however, they were able to do a tummy scan and, again, showed me the heartbeat and said no signs of any issues and I should see it as reassurance and, their words, "take a chill pill"! Although, again the scan says only 7 weeks.
I know I'm driving myself crazy but I've again had the brown when I wipe. It only happens once or twice a day but I'm still nervous about it.
Has anyone had anything similar? I'm scared to let myself relax but I equally know constant worrying won't help.