@meggie1412 can I ask, do they think the movements really are reduced or that you just can't feel them because of position etc?
My first was a nightmare... I could never feel her if she was kicking inwards, which was frequently (my BMi pre-pregnancy was 18 and I had a posterior placenta so there wasn't much reason for it). It was such a stress trying to 'keep an eye on movements' and felt exactly the same as you that I just needed to be able to physically see her and not to be solely responsible at all times!
I only ever went to the hospital once (though was in Ireland in semi private care so got much more frequent scans routinely compared to UK). I had to walk 1.5 miles to the hospital because I lived next to a Stadium that had a Robbie Williams concert on so couldn't get the car out/get a taxi. I cried the entire way convinced it was the end. Allthough I hadn't felt her all day, when the hooked me up to the CTG and did the scan she was in there kicking away the whole time. I just couldn't feel it!
Can you discuss this with the team... are movements actually reduced/you are struggling to feel them.
I completely agree that induction and especially pre-term induction are not something to take lightly or against medical advice. And although I 100% agree that you have to advocate for yourself and baby, perhaps that would be much more frequent planned scans/dopplers between now and term?
I think people always say 'you just know' but I think that can make you worry more and especially when its your first time and you have no comparisons.
Good luck! I hope you get a great plan put in place that can give you some comfort!