Hello,
We have decided to start ttc #2. Our DS is 2.5 years old.
I am excited to have another but every now and then I have a little pang of panic/guilt about having a second. Mostly about how it will effect DS. Did those of you that got a bfp for a 2nd baby have a bit of a panic even when it was planned?
I think my feelings are probably normal? DS took 18 months to conceive and I'm nearly 35 & have long cycles so I'm expecting it to take a while, but then I wonder how will I feel if we concieved straight away?!
I also had a traumatic first birth and said I would never have another, but 2 years on I felt ready to move on. I have moved on from it but there is still some anxiety about doing it again.
Sorry this is a ramble, I just want someone to say its normal to be excited and scared all at the same time 😂😂 x