I’m 39 weeks and the hospital I’m due to give birth at has introduced rapid lateral flow covid tests for all birth partners - you get results that indicate whether you may have covid within 30 minutes and if positive they have to go home and self isolate and arrange for a more accurate PCR test to be taken (which can take days).
This is seriously worrying me. It’s my first baby, I’m terrified of what labour will be like and how I’ll handle it if I had to be alone. I also do not want my husband to miss the birth of his first child. I live 2 hours away from my family and so couldn’t arrange for another birth partner to attend if my husbands test was positive (only other person I would consider having there is my mum anyway).
I’m also frustrated that this has been introduced when these tests have a reputation for not being accurate and a PCR test may come back negative! So I would potentially not have any support during labour & husband misses the birth for no reason - that would be seriously upsetting.
On the other hand I totally understand that they need to do everything possible to keep people safe from covid. My husband and I have been fiercely shielding so it’s unlikely he’ll have caught anything, just feeling like I don’t want to take the risk.
The test is optional, but I imagine there will be a lot of pressure on him to take it / we’ll feel awful saying no. But what would you do? I really want to be selfish in this situation - if he has no symptoms I would prefer he refuses the test. He’ll be wearing a mask & keeping distance anyway. Plus if he has it without symptoms it’s likely I’ll have it too and I won’t be wearing mask etc!
On the whole my hospital trust has been great throughout the pandemic in allowing one birth partner throughout labour, all scans etc. However I feel a bit annoyed that if I’d had my baby earlier when cases were worse but no testing was enforced I would have been able to have my husband there no questions asked, yet now when things are safer I may have to do it alone.
I explained my concern to my midwife and she understood that it was a difficult issue and did suggest he didn’t have to take the test, especially as we’re likely to just be in a private room in the birth centre the whole time. But I just feel so guilty about it! My mum has said we have to do it to protect others. What would you do? It’s all I can think about!
Appreciate your opinions. 