Just found out I’m pregnant😭😭😭😭

[Mamabear1x]

I’m on the pill and take it religiously. Haven’t missed a day but I’m pregnant. I didn’t have periods very often so easily missed the pregnancy tbh.

My 4th pregnancy and OH is demanding a termination. We aren’t good financially and house wise we don’t have the extra space. I just want to cry, I know a termination would be the wiser decision but honestly I don’t think I could live with myself. I’m so scared

hi op I'm sorry it's hard for you atm, I didn't want to read and run. Do you have any one irl to talk to? Xxx

Don't let anyone else make the decision for you, it's you who is carrying this baby xxx

Don’t ever agree to a termination you don’t want. It’s your body and if he didn’t want another child he should have had the snip.

Just here to offer a virtual hand hold and say the same as the other posters did; it's your body and no one should demand what you do with it - it's your decision.

Try to talk to a friend or family member if you can xx

'Demanding'. He can go to fuck. It's one thing to have an opinion, it's quite another that he thinks he can tell you what to do eith your body

If he was that against another baby, why hadn't he had a vasectomy?

No way should you have a termination on his say so, that'll screw your head up badly & wreck your marriage.

Babies have a way of making space for themselves.

Your body, your baby, do what's right for you. 💐

Do you know how far along you are yet? With being on the pill and periods that don't happen often you could be quite far along, which might give your OH a different perspective.

Sorry you are going through this.

"Demanded" is a strong word, I hope he isn't being aggressive about this. It is your body and no one has the right to bully you into what to do with your body.