Miscarriage and baby loss

[Miah10]

So my name is Danielle I'm 32, years have 3 children and a step son and I am currently 9+ weeks pregnant but unfortunately my baby didn't make it.I had a empty sac that was growing big but it was decided on Wednesday to have a D,C next week,I thought I was coping but I'm really no my brother in law found out they were expecting 2weeks ago and my sister in law has just found out there expecting too,I just feel so angry and empty.I don't have any friends or family just my husbands side,i have mental health and I just don't want to feel like this anymore I want my baby back it's so unfair 🥺

I’m so sorry, I know how much it hurts there is help and support available and it may help to connect with others who understand what you are going through. It seems especially painful when family members are now pregnant too. So sorry for your loss.
www.tommys.org/baby-loss-support

What you're going through is so hard. Pregnancy loss is tough enough, but to be going through it when you've got close family members who are happily awaiting their babies is heartbreaking. I wish I had some wise words or a magic wand for you I'm afraid in my experience it's just time and support that will help you to heal. If you haven't got support at home then please consider contacting a professional. You can self refer now on the NHS for talking therapy, I think in all regions.

Thank you,I just needed to let it out.i just never thought it would happen,I kind of knew I could feel something wrong,it's sad to know women have to wait a long time for a d,c.I think that's the hardest part.I've actually over come some of the worst things.thank you for your reply's

Sorry for your loss @Miah10, heartbreaking. I’ve been there as well, so many of us have. And my sister announced her pregnancy a couple of days after I lost the baby. I wish I could tell you otherwise but watching her excitement over the comings months was devastating - but, importantly, it doesn’t break you. I’m now 26 weeks with my own little bubba. I know it feel likes the end of the world, and my advice would be to allow yourself to feel like that for as long as you need. Cry, be sad and a bit selfish. It’s ok. It will get better, just focus on you and your family, and when you’re ready try again. Don’t rush yourself. I definitely recommend speaking to someone like the other posters have said or I found the many many mumsnet posts on mc really helpful. Be kind to yourself xx

Thank you,to be honest my husband is my rock.he's been through so much his self and we honestly are the best together,I just didn't want to keep talking about it to him because I felt like I was making him listen not realising he's going through it to.it's nice to talk with people who our and have been in our situation and thank you for all your lovely messages x