Pregnancy loss

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Hi all, a couple of days ago me and my girlfriend lost our baby, and we are both hurt very much however she has completely shut me out doesn't want to speak or see me is this normal??? She has asked me to leave her alone but I can't help but send her a message or try to call her I havnt seen her since it happened and its absolutely killing me... I love her to bits and don't know what to do

Sorry you're going through this.
There is no 'normal' you just have to let her grieve in whatever way she feels.

It's such a difficult time for the Dad too though.
All you can do is let her know you're there for her

I'm so sorry. It's such an awful thing to go through. I know I wasn't OK after my losses and definitely shut people out - it was the only way I could cope. All you can do is keep trying to reach out to her. Good luck.

I’m sorry, I’m not one for wanting to speak to people when I’m grieving either and it’s nothing personal to you. It sounds like you would deal with grief more with discussion the situation, is there anyone else you can speak to about this while she processes things in her way?

In the meantime just let her know you’re there for her and to let you know if she needs anything.

Sorry for your loss 😔

I don't talk to the husband after losses, it's him that burys his head in the sand though.
Just give her time to process it all, she'll come to you when she's ready.
Still send messages to check in but don't expect any replies or send too many.

With all this covid stuff my partner has to pass our poor little acorn at home she has to have the tablet and suppositories does anyone know how long it takes to pass