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Any way i could get a new midwife?

7 replies

Createausername6 · 21/02/2021 17:02

Long story short, to start with i was hopeful, turned out my midwife is a midwife student. That won't be a problem but couple of things happened / or not what meant to be, so im not really confident with her now. I cant really understand why a student could get a first time mum, if i would have already 1 or 2 children i might would be more calm, but this has to end. What is my options? I know in a normal situation i should go and speak with my gp, but because of the covid i didn't saw my gp about the pregnancy to start with, i just had to register to the maternity notes and they contacted me..

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dannydyerismydad · 21/02/2021 17:08

It is possible to change your midwife. I wish I'd known that when I had my child as I didn't get on with my midwife at all. She was very dismissive and unhelpful.

Your midwife will be linked to a hospital trust, so you can call the community midwifery office in the hospital to request a change of named midwife.

peachypetite · 21/02/2021 17:09

Surely as a student there should always be a qualified midwife too? I never had a student midwife on their own.

peachypetite · 21/02/2021 17:09

Also - I rarely saw the same midwife twice anyway!

UnCoffreDor · 21/02/2021 17:12

Agree with pp, a student shouldn't be left alone to deal with a pregnant woman for the whole appt,or even part of it. Call your local midwifery unit.

StormyInTheNorth · 21/02/2021 17:13

When I had my one and only, the kindest and most competent midwives on labour ward and post natal were student midwives. The qualified ones were dismissive, rude and ever so busy. I was so grateful for the big hug the student midwife gave me when DD wouldn't feed.
Pre natal, they will have supervision.
I'd wait and see, OP.

Kitkat151 · 21/02/2021 17:21

She will be working on under supervision.....it’s irrelevant that you are a first time mum......she will need allround experience ......if it’s that’s much of a big deal then tell them

OverTheRainbow88 · 21/02/2021 17:33

I saw a different community midwife each time, I actually found the student one the most useful and thorough, student ones usually have a fully qualified one in the room!

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