Hi all,
I'm 9 week pregnant with my first baby. My husband and I have been trying for sometime, so we're very excited.
Today I had my first midwife appointment. The appointment went very well until the blood sample collection. There was this girl in the room who seemed to be shadowing the work of midwife, I guess she's a student or something. Somehow, she attempted to collect my blood, needled in the wrong spot, caused a huge pain. It was a horrible minute long nightmare. During the minute, the midwife was instructing her that the needle needed to be moved to the side, etc. Hearing all of those, looking away, not really understanding what's really going on, sweating on my palms, was the longest one minute I had. I was screaming from the pain, at the end midwife said that the needle didn't go into the vein but to its side. She said to try again on the same arm, and I suggested to do it on the other arm because I was still in the pain to do it on it again...
At the end I was in tears a little bit, but we just ignored it and continued the meeting. I was really upset, was hoping to hear some explanation or a little bit of an apology but nothing happened. Now I am upset at myself for not having expressed anything, and to be honest, I now feel uncomfortable to continue with the same midwife without hearing any explanation. Has anyone had similar experience? Is it normal that the apprentice take your blood sample?