I found out I was pregnant so I am now nearing 5 weeks. We already have a daughter who is 5 and my mind feels like a rollercoaster. My main concern is money. My partner needs a new car and we will have to pay for nursery(we can afford it but it will be tight) we have just got ourselves in a good financial position where we can have treats and it feels amazing. One minute I keep thinking we can do this everyone else seems to cope with a second child and then the next minute i struggle to see how we can cope with a second child financially and mentally. Our hearts are saying to keep the baby and our heads are telling us not to. My partner is so supportive and we keep having this discussion every evening but we never seem to come up with a conclusion. Has anyone else been through this? My head feels like it is about to explode