Hi,
Please dont judge me or be unkind, im a pregnant mummy, who has no clue what to do for the best.
So, currently i am 27 weeks pregnant with my 2nd son.
Both my babies are my IVF miracles after 8 cycles and 4 lost babies.
My son, who is 5 was also born prematurely so i am anxious of this baby being early too.
I have just requested to my boss if they would consider to furlough me.
Myself and husband are both key workers so we have the option to send DS to school, but the risk of him bringing something home is just too high. So he will have to stay at home
The problem is, as many have, i cant home school him and work full time, its just too much.
On top of that, sitting upright gives me horrendous pain on my left side (i had this in my 1st pregnancy also) and with my son home, i cant sit at my desk as its upstairs and no room downstairs. Sitting 8 hours at my dinning table is very painful and uncomfortable.
Plus, im not sleeping. I think im suffering with pregnancy insomnia and im awake from 03:30 and im knackered
The thought of working full time from home, at the table, in pain and trying to home school my son on no sleep fills me with dread
So i approached my boss and asked if they would consider for me to be furloughed, or, failing that, an alternative.
Now, she wasnt sure and needed advice from HR and my guess is, it will be a no. Im not entirely sure if me being pregnant helps or hinders me and what impact it will have on maternity leave.
I thought perhaps i would have to go on maternity at 36 weeks but would this affect any maternity benefits that im entitled to?
Thanks