AIBU to be mad at my partner

[GemmaC1990]

I’m really really so angry
Everyone knows the situation with Covid atm and we live in Kent. I was a key worker but took myself off on maternity leave early because I was actually scared of working pregnant I’m doing everything I can to keep my family and the unborn baby safe. I’ve not been out for weeks not seen family or friends. I’m 35 weeks pregnant and will be having my baby at 38 weeks so 3 weeks to go.
My bf has been furloughed from work since before Xmas so has been home a while but I’ve done everything I can to keep us all safe.
Today he decides he’s just
Too bored and has gone to his friends house because he hasn’t been out in weeks and I’m just devastated. God forbid me or him catch Covid and I have
To birth alone I would never forgive him. AIBU to think this is totally selfish unreasonable behaviour considering he has been at home a majority of the time? I don’t know what to do

You are not being unreasonable. He's being a selfish wanker! Sadly there are a lot of them about at the moment x

He sounds like an arsehole! Putting you both at risk, this new strain is no joke it is absolutely everywhere at the moment. Many of my friends have it and are bed-ridden. I would be as angry as you are, definitely not being unreasonable.

Thanks ladies. He went anyway regardless of
What I said. I know it’s boring I’m bored too but he obviously doesn’t value me or the baby’s health. If he doesn’t value his own that’s his problem. I’ve text him explaining my reasonings but he’s ignoring me. Don’t really know what else to say or do, happy new year to me 😥

I hope he finds the sofa / spare bed comfortable for the next ten days....

My thoughts exactly. We don’t have a spare room so he will have to enjoy the sofa. I’m so hurt I can’t believe he’s done it so close to the birth. He said he’s always home I said so is half the population and what’s the point being home then spoiling it one day doesn’t make any sense to risk it all for one day. Hope his friends/drinking/football is worth it

Definitely not being unreasonable.
Boredom is a terrible excuse to put you and your baby at risk for. I'd be furious too.