Hi ladies - hoping you might be able to share some wisdom. I had a private scan yesterday at 7 weeks. Two miscarriages this year so was keen to know where I stood as early as possible. He did an abdominal scan first - saw the heartbeat, said everything looked great, congratulated me. I was beyond relieved. He said there was no need for an internal scan but could have one if I wanted - which I did. This showed that there was no heartbeat - and that the size was closer to 5/6 weeks. He said he must’ve heard my heartbeat in the first scan. I was visibly upset and confused - he told me to calm down and that everything would be fine, that it was my fault for not waiting longer to get pregnant after the last miscarriage and my dates must be wrong. I’m really upset and annoyed I didn’t speak up for myself. I was prepared to hear bad news if it went that way - but wasn’t prepared to have such a basic and upsetting error made. If I hadn’t asked for the internal scan we would’ve left thinking there was a heartbeat. I also don’t think it’s appropriate to say everything will be fine - from what I’ve read that’s not at all necessarily the case. My cycle is very regular and I’m sure of the dates. He didn’t caution me of any risk of miscarriage - which seems like a reasonable outcome from the measurements he put in the report. AIBU to think this was all very unprofessional? AIBU to be preparing myself emotionally for the possibility of another loss despite the doctor saying it would all be fine (based on what I’m not sure)? Thank you.