I doubt this is the right section but I need to vent! My younger sister is intent on ruining every family get tohether, relationships with my side of the family are strained (long story)- we had a blazing row yesterday when she told me that I did not deserve to be happy and that she is always in my shadow (I am the eldest). She did this with my wedding day and refused to attend up until the morning of the actual day which was heart breaking, almost like she wanted to be centre of attention- the old' whoah is me card' and again now the next big thing in my life she is kicking up a fuss. It started with random ailments etc during the past few months, so going to the doctor every week, if I had a bad back she would have a bad back the next week and so on.. I have been worrying about the financial constraints of mat leave, she has now told my mom she is in debt, and now she has told me that her boyf has attacked her but then in the next breath he didn't! I have put up with it for years and not reacted pussy footing round her all the time. There is a lot of history that I don't want to go into but I would really appreciate some advise on how to deal with it now I have a LO on the way, I find her behaviour a little strange and irrational. A to top it off my dh has the most perfect family in the world so I feel guilty he is being subjected to such childish behaviour and family turmoil!