[quote OnNaturesCourse]@jenasaurus
Were you in hospital for long with your 3rd? Were you both okay after?
My main concern at the moment is baby arriving too early, and us both needing hospital care (I have serious anxiety about hospitals, I had to stay in for a week with DC1 and DP had to stay with me to calm me unfortunately that's not at all possible now)[/quote]
I was in hospital for 3 weeks, and I was OK but had a bit of an emotional breakdown as the flood of hormones left me, the nurses were wonderful, they allowed me to sleep in the nurses room on a sofabed with my DD next to me, she was initially in an incubator but I managed to breast feed her which is unusual in one so early, she had a feeding tube as well in her nose but she did latch on and snuggle, I think the nurses wanted to make sure we bonded as I was so upset about being robbed of the last few months of the pregnancy. I was admitted after the BP was raised and they did a scan I think it was a doppler scan and they said the baby hadnt grown since 27 weeks so they gave her steroids to ensure her lungs were developed and then induced me. The Consultant came to see me by my bed the day before and said he couldnt promise a good outcome, I remember this as very distressing as my DP was at home with our 2 boys and my parents were on holiday so I was all alone with this consultant covered in blood splatterd wellingtons (think he had just carried out a C section) and I just cried and cried.
There was a young girl in the bed next to me who was in because she had diabetes and a difficult pregnancy, I called her Kylie as she looked like a young kylie Minogue, her mum was with her when I was told the news and she came over and rubbed my back when I had contractions, she was so lovely, they both were, and then when I had my DD, she was perfect and didnt need any help breathing or anything, she was just small, and soon caught up. I think they have to prepare you for the worst but in both my pregnancies when I had preeclampsia I had good outcomes.
I had no need of any medical care after her birth, they did monitor me, and did keep me in with her and we both went home together, she weighed only 3 pounds 10 when we left but they said she was feeding so well and apart from a touch of jaundice which she had to have vitamin K for she was and is fine (she is 25 now :) The only issue I had was emotional and I think its all down to the hormones when they leave your system when you give birth.