Hello all,
First time posting on this board for pregnancy.
So I am 33 weeks and 4 days. I’ve had scans as normal, with 2 extra.
1 at 24 weeks in addition to my 20th because I had my 20th scan privately while in Amsterdam.
1 at 33 weeks which was a 4D bonding scan yesterday.
So 4 scans in total incl my 12 week scan, and have seen midwife to measure fundal height twice.
Everything has seemed normal to me and each time the med professionals I’ve seen have said everything looks perfectly normal in terms of growth and well with baby, so I’ve never second guessed anything. However, I just woke up randomly at 6am, and decided to go through the results and photos from the scan yesterday. I’ve seen that baby’s femur length is coming in small.
So I went back at looked at all other scans and sure enough, baby’s femur was below average on all scans, but it had never been flagged or mentioned at all. Of course now I’m panicking and feeling really upset that that this measurement has always been below average and has never been mentioned to me.
Granted I don’t consume that much calcium aside from my supplement (lactose intolerant) and I read that could be a factor especially in black women, but why wasn’t this detected in my bloods or mentioned by the sonographers? Or midwifes looking at my bloods that I’m possibly deficient? I’ve obviously googled and it could be a soft marker or dwarfism or downs.
My baby’s father is tall, and my 4 year old has really long legs. I’m 5,7... so this really has upset me and concerned me massively just coming to this realisation. Especially if there is something I could have done dietary wise to improve it.
From the baby’s face as we saw today, he doesn’t look like he had any noticeable indications in his face regarding defects. And the ultrasound tech said baby looked perfectly fine with placenta working sufficiently. Has anyone else had or is going through anything similar?
Sorry for the manic post but I’m just in total shock that this has been missed.