Hi ladies, I know I probably won't be very popular when you read this but im so scared right now I dont know how to get out of this mess I've created, im going to try to explain the best I can, here goes. So I'm 22 weeks pregnant and I've been in a relationship for 4 years, baby is not this mans child, its not been a very good relationship and I've tried to leave i was even in a woman's refuge for 6 months, he can get very angry very quickly, so I've also go 2 other children a son who's 16 and a daughter 13, I was with their dad for 10 years, back in the summer, the man I've been with for 4 years and i were going through a real bad patch and I really did think that was the end for us, I even got him to move back to his own place, but one night after having a huge row with this man I stayed over my children's dads house and we had sex 2 weeks later I found out I was pregnant, In that 2 weeks the man who im with and I got back on track he was just so persuasive and I felt bad for him, I didnt expect that I'd be pregnant, now I want this child so much but this man will absolutely go mental if he finds out and I dont know how to get out of this relationship and I want out so bad but im so scared and the longer it goes on the more likely he is to find out, I just don't know what to do, I feel so ashamed that I've done this, i've never cheated on him before or after and I dont really have anyone I can talk to because I'm so embarrassed my family dont like this man but they love my ex so I know what they're all gonna say. im just so weak why can't I just leave this man? I know there's no real future for us. I hope ive explained well enough and I know im probably going to be judged i just dont know where else to turn so I've created an account on here just to get some advice really please help