Hi ladies, I’m literally crying as I write this as I feel so awful but I need to get this off my chest.
Two of my good friends have their eldest children the same age as me and they were trying to conceive their second at the same time as my Partner and I were. I’m so sorry to say neither have them have been successful so far, which breaks my heart as I can’t imagine the pain and frustration.
However, I’m 32 weeks pregnant with my second baby after 5 months of trying.
I’ve experienced from the both the cold shoulder, they ignore me, avoid me and have stopped inviting me out and just stopped bothering me.
I haven’t talked about my pregnancy with them as I really wanted to be sensitive and they told me that’s why they prefer. They would rather avoid it because it triggers them.
I know I have a right so feel upset and they also have a right to feel upset too. I really empathise and I’m so sorry to them for them still waiting.
Has anyone else experienced this? I feel so guilty for being pregnant but I don’t want to feel this way as I’m so happy and excited.
Any advice? Am I in the wrong?