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Dont know how I feel about being pregnant

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Sillylemonade1 · 30/11/2020 13:27

Im 23 and just found out I'm pregnant with my 3rd, very early days, the line is so faint and on an frer so must only be 4 weeks, I need to do a clear blue but going to wait a week as my line was faint.

I haven't been with my current boyfriend long, about 7-8 months. I have two children from a previous relationship (3yr old and 1yr old). This was obviously unplanned.

Right now I don't feel happy about it, I stress so much with my two I have already, I had PND with my second, I worry about how I'm going to be viewed having them all so close together and I'm only 23, and now with a different dad. (I know other people have more than one dad to their kids, but all the people I know are so judgy and I'm such an anxious person I don't take it well).

Bf is over the moon, but i can't help but not relate to his feelings.

I just wanted some words of advice or wisdom or maybe this was just to vent I don't know, I think I'm just in a bit of shock right now Sad

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olderthanyouthink · 30/11/2020 13:45

I get the worrying about what people think, I was 23 when I had my first (25 and just pregnant with a 2nd now) and where in from it's not unusual but where I live now I'm about 10 years younger than most other mums with kids the same age. I got pregnant with DD a couple months into my relationship with her dad Blush

When I came on here like "oh crap I'm pregnant" MNers said I didn't have to continue the pregnancy but that's not what I wanted when it came to it. When you take everyone else's judgment (including DPs) out of it do you want to keep the baby?

Dannii1996 · 30/11/2020 15:24

Girl take no notice of what anyone else thinks, it’s your life not theirs and aslongs you are happy sod them! I’ve just turned 24 and am pregnant with baby number 5, first born was with a different person (who hasn’t seen her since 1 years old) and the rest with current partner. I’m sure lots of people have an opinion but I’m too busy to care haha! All the best op xx

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