I know this is a strange question and I’ll probably get lots of mean answers...but has anyone done this?
My first and only child I told everyone at 12 weeks. Went for anatomy scan at 20 weeks where they found the baby had multiple birth defects. Everyone knew I’d had the scan and obviously were asking about it. I felt that I had no time to get my head around it before I was being bombarded with questions I didn’t have the answers to. I’m the type who likes to be left alone to process things and having to face the news plus the questions, opinions and reactions of others isn’t something I’d like to repeat if it happened again. I know women show quicker on second pregnancies but I didn’t start showing properly last time until about 16 weeks. In case anyone is interested, my child in now 2 and doing well after several surgeries but has life long issues they’ll need to manage and future surgeries.
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Anyone hidden a pregnancy until 20 weeks?
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Bapples · 22/11/2020 00:38
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