Its a bit of a very complicated situation help!!!

[Jemmumof2]

Hi everyone, so i have posted on here before about having 2 poundland test being positive and 2 cb being negative on first wees of the mornings, things have now become alot complicated. Basically my other half ex has not long given birth to their baby girl who is now very poorly and needs a operation in gosh soon I'm being there for him as much as I can, he also has another child with someone else who is in his care full time, I have said that his children come first like we do as parents and understand but I'm now left on my own again with what to do if I am pregnant for the best as at the moment isn't something he would probably want to talk about as his mind is on his poorly baby girl, I have had a letter from my docs about my implant being less effective and I need to talk my options but I would obviously like his opinion but not sure how to go about it as I need to make the appointment ASAP as if I pregnant obviously not going to have a new implant put back in and as we were speaking about not having an implant back in before his baby girl got poorly I just don't know what to do for me or for anyone as I have had an abortion before on the grounds of not really wanting to kinda thing and I know I wouldn't be able to do that again so I am really stuck on what to do for the best if that makes sense just need some advice I think

1. Confirm pregnancy before you take action.

2. Sort out your contraception immediately.

If you are pregnant, you will need to talk to your partner - he will need to take responsibility for his actions, regardless of his other circumstances. If you aren't pregnant, you need to have an upfront conversation with him explaining that you've had a pregnancy scare and felt unable to talk to him about it. You're adults in a relationship and need to discuss your sexual relationship and contraception. It is both people's responsibility.

It raises red flags for me that you are in a relationship with a man who has presumably separated from his girlfriend whilst she was pregnant, since she has only recently given birth and that you are concerned you may be pregnant yourself. I don't know your partner's history but he seems to have a track record of pregnant partners and failed relationships. Do you want to be another one?