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Fed up with irritable uterus (just a moan)

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CoalCraft · 16/11/2020 16:32

Currently 32+4 with my first. I've been getting Braxton Hicks contractions for so long that I genuinely can't remember when they started, but it was around 16 weeks or so, and by 20 weeks they'd become very regular. Like "all the time, a constant present in my life" sort of regular. They didn't hurt at all at first, and honestly I was only aware of them when lying on my back, as then I could see this hard little lump of a uterus, and feel and see my pulse strongly. I called triage about them a couple of times and was told just to keep an eye on them. I mentioned them to my midwife every time I saw her, and she said it was because I'm so thin (I'm not particularly thin, before pregnancy I was a size 10 and weighed something like 58 kg Hmm ).

So I thought "okay, obviously it's not a big deal, just get on with it", and I have done, but honestly they've just gotten more annoying over time. Since maybe 28 weeks they've started to hurt - not severely, just a tense ache across the top of my bump - but they can easily last 10 or 20 minutes or longer, or be shorter but come every few minutes, and this happens all day, every day. It's somehow exhausting. I went into the day assessment unit last week for foetal movement concerns (baby was fine), and the womb hardness monitor (whatever it's called) showed regular, strong contractions about a minute and a half long, about 3-4 minutes apart. It doesn't mean I'm in premature labour, the midwife said, just "gosh, that is a VERY irritable uterus!". Uch. It hurts. It's tiring. It interferes with me feeling baby's movements (it's probably why I had to go in in the first place). I want it to stop.

And the most frustrating thing about it is how little research and information there is on it. I've trawled Google Scholar for "irritable uterus" and every other combination of terms I can think of. There is hardly anything. One paper says that it slightly increases the risk of premature labour. Another that it can be caused by infection, which I don't have, or dehydration, which I don't have, or constipation, which I probably do have but not to any sort of extreme level that would explain why I have to put up with these constant contractions and the millions of other constipated pregnant people out there don't. And that's about it as far as the entire scientific community is concerned. No one's that bothered, apparently.

I guess I should take comfort from the fact that no one professional seems to care, since that must mean it's not particularly dangerous or harmful. I do believe that. I'm not particularly anxious about this, just fed up with it. And I do worry that while it might not be hurting baby exactly, it could still be an unpleasant experience for her having the walls of her home always clamping down like that.

Thank you for reading. I'm not posting this expecting advice really (though if you have a cure, please tell me!), just want to have a moan and perhaps find some solidarity, because while DH is suitably sympathetic it would be awesome to commiserate with anyone who might have experienced similar.

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serialplanner · 16/11/2020 20:26

Gosh that's so awful for you! When something has been going on for so long it's can be so disheartening and a drag :( I'm not surprised you are fed up!

Can you try another midwife or call the helpline again? Another person might just be more helpful or willing to talk to you about it?

Everyday is a day closer to your baby and no more Braxton Hicks and I'm sure you will remind baby like all funny mums do that you had to endure these pains for most of your pregnancy!

All the best x

alwaystiredalwaysgrumpy · 16/11/2020 20:48

I had an irritable uterus from about 33 weeks. It was exhausting. I found stress made it considerably worse. My consultant put me on bed rest for about 3/4 weeks and it helped massively. I feel for you!

CoalCraft · 16/11/2020 22:39

Thanks guys, I really appreciate you taking the time to read and reply ❤️

@serialplanner
The thing is I've spoken to quite a few people really; my midwife, two different people on the triage phone, two midwives at the day assessment unit... People just don't seem very bothered since there's no sign of premature labour otherwise - which is obviously a good thing! - but frustrating to have no answers as to why or what or...

@alwaystiredalwaysgrumpy
That's really interesting that bed rest improved things for you! I haven't noticed that my contractions are any less bad when I'm lying down or anything, but maybe with a bit more rest they would. And since I'm working from home anyway I might be able to get away with just having my laptop in bed!

I have a midwife appointment tomorrow so I'll have another little whinge to her then, stress that they're getting quite painful, and increasingly so, and see if she thinks resting up more would help.

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ellentree · 16/11/2020 22:50

I had it too, I have sympathy for you. It started at around 28 weeks with my first - there didn't seem much correlation between rest and it getting better for me. I did start mat leave a bit earlier so I could rest more as I was exhausted, but didn't help the irritable uterus. I was admitted at around 33 weeks because of the contractions being so strong on the monitor and they gave me steroids but she stayed put until 38 weeks.

I had it with my second pregnancy too but not nearly as bad. Also was reassuring knowing what it was.

I hope it eases off for you.

calimommy · 16/11/2020 22:52

4th baby here and I always get them too. They usually start quite early -this time I felt them from 14ish weeks tbh. Tiredness and dehydration make mine worse. On the plus side, you are likely to have a speedier delivery. 👍

MnM156 · 16/11/2020 23:33

Exact same feelings!

I started having Braxton Hicks around 18/19 weeks. I am 33+4 weeks now and I feel them at least once everyday. A large big lump forms on my left side and I get all tense and tight for a few mins. Eases up after a while. They are like a part of my life. When I told my midwife, she just commented 'oh, they started so soon...poor you.'

Hatepickinganame · 17/11/2020 02:52

I get braxtons all the time. Started before I even felt the baby move, and now I'm 36 weeks. Mine showed up on monitor when I went in for RM a couple of weeks ago and I was kept in overnight to make sure it wasn't preterm labour (baby in an awkward position meant preterm labour was life threatening due to potential cord prolapse) I've been told the frequency could be down to the fact that I have polyhydramnios (too much fluid) I find they don't have a pattern at all, so changing my activity eg moving if in sitting or sitting if I'm active, has no influence! I've been using them to practice breathing through. Also if it helps, I've had them in all 3 pregnancies and my labours were quick and relatively easy. No idea if there's any link at all but makes me feel better ☺

CoalCraft · 17/11/2020 06:38

Thanks everyone for your replies

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sarahc336 · 17/11/2020 07:14

I've had this with my second pregnancy, probably started around week 28, I thought I was in labour, I wasn't ha ha. But yeah the braxton hicks have kinda felt crampy this time and now in 40 weeks, the last two weeks I've had so many twinges ana niggles if it was my first again I'd have thought I was in labour daily. I'm learning to ignore it all now. My midwife says it's apparently quite common after having a baby already as the uterus already knows what it's doing so can practice harder. Is this your first or second/third baby? It's tiring isn't it xx

CoalCraft · 17/11/2020 08:14

@sarahc336
It's my first, guess my uterus just wants to get ahead of the curve Grin I'd like one more baby after this one, fingers crossed the contractions aren't even worse!

Sorry you're having it too, but how exciting you're so close now to meeting your little one ☺️

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sarahc336 · 17/11/2020 09:27

Oh well if it's your first even more sympathy to you. Try and see it as it's your bodies way of practicing so when it's the real deal it'll know more what to do but it is annoying though, xx

CoalCraft · 21/11/2020 04:59

I'm not sure if anyone's still following this thread and interested, but I had my baby yesterday at 33+1 weeks! She is doing really well all things considered.

Unfortunately I've not had any clarity on whether the irritable uterus was a factor in the premature delivery. There's no sign of infection so that's that ruled out, but otherwise they don't seem able to say why it happened. My midwife, bless her, is sure it was the irritable uterus (when I told her she exclaimed "I KNEW you were never getting to term!"), but everyone else has shrugged and said that we'll never know for sure. What I'd really like to know is if it would be likely to happen with a subsequent pregnancy, but again I think I'll just have to accept that my risk is elevated slightly and that's that.

Either way, at least I'm not getting them any more!

Thank you to everyone who read and responded to my my first post xx

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calimommy · 21/11/2020 05:34

Oh wow congratulations! Glad you are both doing well. My father is a neonatologist and tbh even he says that much of the causes of premature delivery are unknown. He wishes he knew, so he could prevent it. Best of luck for the future!

serialplanner · 21/11/2020 08:58

@CoalCraft congratulations glad baby is here and safe and you hopefully no longer have that irritation. Enjoy xx

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