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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Anyone else feeling so terrible ?

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Babyjune21 · 08/11/2020 23:05

Not sure where else to put this only 9 weeks pregnant with my 2nd baby and feel worse than I ever have wasn’t like this with my first but my mum died when I was 32 weeks pregnant last time and I don’t have any other blood family she really single handily got me threw my first pregnancy right up until she passed and now with feeling so horrible I feel I have no one to really truly turn too !, my other half try’s the best he can but works hard and is trying to take care of our wee one so can’t turn to him and friends all have their own stuff going on right now with covid etc !! I just wanted to tell the world how awful I feel and for me not to feel bad or a shamed for saying it ! Does anyone else feel like a burrden being pregnant

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Rainbowbaby3 · 08/11/2020 23:15

Hello. I have 2 ds and this is my 3rd pregnancy after 4 miscarriages im 10 weeks 4 days pregnant and believe me when i say i look and feel absolutely
Crap. Exhaustion is never ending im falling asleep everywhere. And somedays like today for eg i felt so nauseous just walking around. So i know how you feel. I actually didnt feel this bad with my other pregnancies so I'm guessing all is well. With regards to telling anyone. I cant actually discuss the pregnancy with anyone except OH because I've not told anyone just incase i miscarried again...

Rainbowbaby3 · 08/11/2020 23:19

Also please don't feel bad. Its hard being pregnant and youre bodys working very hard to grow a little human. ❤️

Babyjune21 · 09/11/2020 00:51

@Rainbowbaby3 thank you so much for replying I just got it when I needed it most sightly sobbing in bed next to sleeping husband I am so so sorry that you’ve suffered four loses big hugs and love to you I will keep everything crossed that everything will go smoothly for your rainbow baby’s arrival i was my mums rainbow baby what a bond we had youl know that once your little baba gets here !! It’s just so hard isn’t it ? I wish more people openly talked about it !! I wish I didn’t feel so terrible for moaning I am pleased I am pregnant and I do want my baby but can I not want these things and also feel bloody ill and done in too ?? Do you think you will feel any better when you tell people ? Xx

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Rainbowbaby3 · 12/11/2020 09:49

Hi.. I dont know to be honest. Im scared to tell anyone incase something goes wrong Confused

MsHedgehog · 12/11/2020 10:10

I'm 19+1. I had my first panic attack in years yesterday. I have no idea what brought it on, but after two days of feeling really doom and gloom, I started hyperventilating.

I am usually a positive person and have dealt with a lot of things where I just power through with a smile on my face. I tried to do that over the past two days but I realised, I'm married, I have my husband, I have him now to support me rather than me dealing with things on my own. So as my panic attack started, I went over to him for help, and it helped.

You are not on your own, and you have people around you who love you. I shut my husband out when he could clearly see I wasn't right, but when I reached out, he was there without hesitation. You are not a burden to your husband, so talk to him, so he can help you and reassure you and support you.

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