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FtmNov22 · 28/10/2020 20:38

I'm a first time mum,due in 4 weeks, really want breastfeeding to work so I have done a lot of research into it. I'm not completely against formula as believe fed is best but I don't want to fail at breastfeeding at the first hurdle and want to give it all I can for it to work.

At my 36 week appointment this week I asked my midwife what support is available for breastfeeding, like is there a number to call or a place to go for help after I've been discharged if I come across any problems. Her response was none is open due to coronavirus, make sure you don't get discharged until you are confident and speak up at the checks you get after birth as that will be the only opportunity.

The appointment altogether I felt was very rushed, like when I asked about colostrum harvesting she handed me an envelope with syringes and leaflets and said to have a look at it, no other comment. My breasts have been feeling sore and tingly and hard at times but no sign of any colostrum 😔

The appointment ended with her telling me she has a week holiday so my 38 week appointment will be in 3 weeks time at 39 weeks. I feel like I don't get much suport from her.

I really don't want to fail at the first hurdle but I feel like there is very little support available to me. Has anyone got any advice?

Would it be worth contacting my health visitor?

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june2007 · 29/10/2020 23:39

Contact association of breast feeding motthers or le leche league. 9or both.) They have info on teir websites and may have peer supporters or counsellors in your area. And they have phne lines.

addler · 30/10/2020 03:59

A lot of trusts have changed their policies and now encourage colostrum harvesting in all mothers. I'm 36 weeks too and my trust offers syringes and advice on how to do it, and said it's changed recently to encourage all women to harvest some.

SassyPants87 · 30/10/2020 04:45

Hey OP i found this video the most helpful! Even more helpful than the feeding antenatal classes I joined

globalhealthmedia.org/portfolio-items/attaching-your-baby-at-the-breast/?portfolioCats=191%2C94%2C13%2C23%2C65

Midwives at the hospital when you give birth are really helpful and will help make sure your latch is correct. Don't leave until you feel confident

My one advice to you would be make sure your latch is correct, take baby off if the latch isn't right even if you have to do this 20 times! It makes all the difference

Also the first few days will be the worst!! No one prepares you for it, but keep at it and I promise it gets so much easier x

ThanksItHasPockets · 30/10/2020 07:43

My sister and a few of my friends have given birth to their second or subsequent babies in the last six months. For all of the disruption and heartache that the Covid protocols have caused they have all said that with no partners or visitors on the postnatal wards the midwives have had more time to spend with women offering breastfeeding support. Breastfeeding rates have gone up since the beginning of lockdown despite the closure of many breastfeeding cafes and other support systems. Good luck, OP.

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