Wonder if anyone can offer any advice - I am 37 weeks pregnant - (2nd pregnancy but 1st child - lost my first at 15 weeks). Naturally I have been very anxious throughout this pregnancy after what happened with my first, I'm still terrified about something going wrong.
At 30 weeks I got diagnosed with a rare autoimmune disease called ITP - my body is destroying my blood platelets, so my platelet count at present is too low for me to have an epidural despite being prescribed steroids to try & boost them. The steroids just aren't working. At present the consultant has advised that they will induce at 38 weeks and try to boost the platelets with a higher dose of steroids or immunoglobulin therapy (bit like blood transfusion) so that I have the option of an epidural. I have already said that I will refuse the induction if I don't have the option of the epidural as I have heard inductions can be particularly painful - particularly early. The consultant said I could have a planned c sec if I wanted and they wouldn't make me do something I didn't want to do. Also I had a growth scan this week and baby is measuring in 95th centile. To make matters more complicated, they don't know if the baby has low blood platelets like me (cannot test until he is born) which can cause internal bleeding if they are very low so they have said that during delivery they will try to avoid using forceps/ventouse.
Here's my dilemma which is the best option for delivery - both will have to happen at 38 weeks as they will try to boost my platelets enough for me to have epidural/spinal - altho lower count needed for spinal vs epidural. Weighing up the options I am leaning to the c sec for being more controlled/less risk for both of us/avoids forceps & ventouse/baby is big and my partner can be there.
Despite this the consultant still thinks that induction is better but I don't know why. Because c sec is considered major surgery? I am not confident at 38 weeks that an induction will be successful, and will not lead to the intervention that I am supposed to be avoiding - forceps/ventouse. I am already worried for my baby having lost one before. I will also not be able to have my partner with me during the induction because of covid so he can only join when in active labour.
Any thoughts/advice on which direction to take?