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Frightened I'm pregnant again after a miscarriage

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cygnet2 · 20/10/2020 21:52

Hey everyone I'm not sure what I'm hoping for here maybe some reassurance or someone who has had similar. I have fertility issues (IVF not an option only surrogacy) and I already have one amazing toddler. Earlier this year we found out we were pregnant again but I lost the baby and had a miscarriage. Now I think I might be pregnant again my period is late and I'm terrified to check. I don't want to find out but I'm also worried I will jinx it. I don't know what to do every pain or twinge or sorry for the tmi discharge is scary I keep checking for blood all the time I don't know how I'm going to relax If I am pregnant. My friend who miscarried at the same time as me has also just had a second mc. I feel devestated for her but I'm also so worried it will happen to me too. How do you stop yourself worrying when you've had a mc before? Thank you Flowers

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wannabebump · 20/10/2020 21:57

Firstly... Thanks

Secondly, in all honestly, I don't think you do stop worrying. I know I didn't initially when I fell pregnant after an MC. However, as the days and weeks pass, you do relax a bit.

About taking a test - it's the only way to tell really, and it won't change you being worried. Do the test and least you'll know where you stand - if you're expecting AF as it's negative, or if it's positive, you know to take it easy.

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