So a month ago I had my booking appointment with my midwife and I have high bmi. Not a shocker, I'm on the larger side. She mentioned I might be at higher risk of gestational diabetes and I think added more blood tests but to be honest it's all a blur now. I don't recall her mentioning anything about a consultant but again it's all new to me and may have been forgotten in all the other info. I wasn't allowed to take my notes which I thought was strange. She said I could have them after my 12 week scan. I thought it might be covid related and other than being a bit miffed (she'd shown me all the useful numbers - who to call if I had bleeding etc but what use is it if I can't access it if I need it?) I didn't question it.
Anyway! I then had my 12 week scan last Monday. I assume everything was fine. At no point did anyone say it wasn't, but actually I don't remember anyone saying it was and now I'm paranoid. At the blood tests afterwards and looking through my notes the nurses pointed out that my midwife had referred me to a consultant and had I been told. I said no. They said it would be because of my bmi, and then as leaving sent me to make an appointment at the front desk. I also made an appointment for my 20 week scan and some extra growth scans after 32 weeks, that was definitely because of the bmi. I remember them clearly telling me that.
Now skip to now. I got my partner to phone the hospital to query my Monday appointment, just to make sure it would be at the hospital and not anywhere else, as without a letter I don't have clear instructions. They were unable to help unless he could tell them what the appointment was for and they were confused it was so soon after my scan. Sadly I was at work so I couldn't explain I think it's because I'm fat but now it's left me worrying. Is there a chance something was wrong at the scan and they didn't tell me? If there wasn't a consultant available on the day would they send me away? I'm so worried now. At my scan I measured 13 weeks, which was further than I expected. I had a private scan at 7 +3 just for peace of mind and I was measuring exactly as I predicted then but now suddenly its skipped forward 3 days. Should I be alarmed? Any help would be appreciated. Thanks 😊