Pregnant don't know what to do

[Brii94]

Has anyome struggled with making a decision when accidently falling pregnant? I dont want to abort my baby but my parter (who ive onky known 6 months) wants me to abort and says if i keep it i will be forcing him into something he doesnt want to do. We have had the perfect relationship up until now i dont want to loose him but i think if i get rid of my baby i could end up resenting him. Im 25 and he is 25 and we do not live together.

Absolutely do not let him force you to have an abortion if you do not want to. Your body, your choice. If you choose to go ahead with the pregnancy and he chooses not to be involved then that will be a shame but that is his choice.

To be honest, you may have had the perfect relationship up to this point, but this is a huge red flag - trying to convince a woman to have an abortion when they don't want to. He is not the perfect partner, and this is a warning sign for the future. In your situation, if you don't want to abort, then I would tell him that I am keeping the baby and he can be as involved as he wishes.

@Brii94
Did you not find your previous thread helpful at the weekend about this? I know lots commented to you on the other one.

How do i see? Ive had no notifications x

Your DP doesn’t get a say. It’s 100% your decision to make.

I found out I was pregnant at 19 when DH had only been together for a couple of months. We had long discussions about whether or not to continue with the pregnancy but I always knew I wouldn’t be able to go through with an abortion. DD is now 6.

Wow, he says you’d be forcing him? How about he would be forcing you also.
It’s your body and completely up to you!

You've said it already - you don't want to abort your baby. That's that, tell him that and if he doesn't wanna stick around then so be it he clearly isn't the one for you if he would try to convince you to abort your baby.

Your body your choice, not his.
You might find he changes his mind, or he might leave but either way you have to make this decision for you and if you think you could do this alone then you should x

@Brii94
If you go to the middle 'I'm on' button, you'll find your own thread if you wanted to read the comments. X

@Brii94 you've already posted this in chat and somewhere else so if you go onto the threads in on button you'll be able to find your responses. There is a pregnancy choices section where you may find even more support. Good luck op 😊