Hi! Thanks for replying. I was ok reading what the RCOG says, but then another website (which also seemed legit, but maybe not so) painted a much more doom and gloom picture.
Our first became very poorly a few days after birth and spent 8 days in SCBU. Had that not been the case, I think I might be less worried now. As it stands, I know how shit having a baby in hospital is, and that's not helping me at the moment.
According to the RCOG, babies with PA are usually delivered around 35-36 weeks and those with PP are delivered around 36-37 weeks. Do you work in the field? You just sound so relaxed, I wish I was
Have you had PP/ PA with previous deliveries?
I know the professionals will be really well-prepared, but I think needing a blood transfusion in theatre would still be quite scary. Would they give me a GA if it came to that? Just not sure my husband would cope very well either. Added to all this is that if I do have PA, all my care would be in a hospital in a bigger town. It's not far away, but I don't drive and it would be much more of a faff for my husband and son to visit if I had to be admitted in late pregnancy.
I really don't a hysterectomy as we are not convinced this is our last and I would feel robbed of a part of my female identity, even though I wouldn't look any different on the outside. However, I think hysterectomies are carried out as a last resort only I believe, and if it's that or death the choice is simple.
I wasn't sure if I'd got over the trauma of having an I'll baby last time, and I had awful anxiety in my first pregnancy. I was doing so much better this time round, but now I'm just scared by all the what-ifs. I should find out more in a few weeks, when I see the consultant radiologist to check for PA. I wish that was sooner though...