I had two inductions. One was dreadful, the second one (aged 42) was better as I was determined not to have another awful experience. I think the first time i wasnt prepared for how incredibly long it takes. You expect to do the early stages of labour at home where you are distracted, in hospital it just seems to take forever. It is painful and boring and it gets stressful waiting and wondering how much longer and more painful it can get.
I will tell you about the second induction, which I was having solely due to my age. Having the pessary put in was very routine,
(it hurt as I was nowhere near ready to give birth) a bit of monitoring of the baby, the midwives are chatty and lovely and honestly having OH there for this part is just not necessary. I was lucky enough to be allowed to leave the hospital and went for a long walk for two hours. If you can't do that DO walk round the hospital or ward as walking does speed things up.
Then I sent my OH home for the next ten hours. It is such a long and boring wait, i didn't want OH there looking impatient and I had decided to do hypnobirthing relaxation techniques which my OH didn't want to help with.
I passed the time reading, watching a romcom on my phone, and listening to music on my headphones, then I put on a rainforest soundtrack to drown out the sounds of another woman moaning in agony (she had been going through induction for 28 hours by this stage and was in a lot of pain which upset my focus on staying calm and positive). I found it impossible to sleep much but I did try to get a few hours lying down, because my first induction took 38 hours and i didnt sleep more than 2 hours which was exhausting.
Although a lot of hypnobirthing purists say you can't use hypnobirthing during induction, I found it really helpful in the early stages and got to 7.5cm dilated on just 2 paracetamol. The midwife didn't believe how close to delivery I was because I was not making a huge fuss.
I phoned OH to come in to hospital when I could tell things were progressing well, and he arrived just as I was starting to find it hard to cope on my own. I only spoke to a midwife once between 6.30pm and 3am, I am not sure why they ignored me, perhaps I seemed happy (they didn't monitor the baby which really surprised me).
phoned him when I could tell things were progressing, and he arrived just in time for me to start pushing and saw the baby arrive
I begged her to just check how far I was and she went into emergency mode when she realised I was 7.5cm dilated, basically threw me on a trolley and took me straight to a labour room.